the one 4 me online dating frequently asked questions
What do I do if I forget my login details
How do I cancel my membership?
How much does online dating cost?
How do I get support about my membership?
What should I write about myself?
What sort of photo should I upload?
What do I do if I forget my login details
If you forget your login details, please visit the Member Login page and below the boxes for your username and password you will see a link to be sent a reminder. Simply click this, put your email address in and we’ll do the rest.
Yes it is really free to sign up. We don’t think it is right to charge you money just to get in the site. Once in, you’ll be able to create your shiny new profile, add your photos and search for other singles and send winks. Should you want to send a message or read a message, you will need to subscribe and become a full member.
How do I cancel my membership?
We’re sorry you want to cancel, but hopefully it is because you have found someone great on the site. (if you have found somebody please email us at success@theone4me.co.uk). To cancel your membership, sign it to the one 4 me, then click on My Account, then towards the bottom you’ll see Help and Support, below this is a link to contact support, click on this and it’ll take you to a contact page. At the bottom is a button to delete your account.
How much does online dating cost?
It is free to sign up initially to the one 4 me, but should you want to read or send messages or use any of the live chat facilities, you’ll need to become a full member which is a bargain at £10 a month.
How do I get support about my membership?
To get support regarding your membership, please sign it to the one 4 me, then click on My Account, then towards the bottom you’ll see Help and Support, below this is a link to contact support, click on this and it’ll take you to a contact page where you can send a message to the support team.
Meeting strangers anywhere can always be a risk, but as long as you are careful and think things through then there’s no reason why it can’t be safe. Chatting to people on the site is completely safe and and other people will never find out where you live or your real email address or phone number, unless you choose to tell them. Our messaging service is completely secure and anonymous. We recommend talking to them through the online chat or sending messages for a while as it allows you to get to know each other, then when the time is right and you both feel happy, you can swap an email address or phone number.
We must stress that you are responsible for your own safety and always advise that you tell friends that you are going on a date and where you’ll be. Think logically about where to meet as well, a busy crowded bar is better than a quiet lonely park for example. Just enjoy the site, take time to get to know people and go from there. If you require further advise, please get in touch with us.
What should I write about myself?
This is probably the most common question people ask. What should I write about myself. There is no hard and fast rule about what to write but we do have some pointers for you to help get you to a flying start…
- Make sure you tell the truth, if you tell porkies, it will come out in the end.
- Online dating is fun, don’t be too serious in what you write, funny or unusual profiles tend to get the most attention
- Explain your situation, for example who and what you are looking for, this way it clears up and awkwardness later on.
- Write about your favourite books, or music or films. It is always good to know what people are into in their day to day life.
- Do you have any peculiar habits or pet hates? If so, write them in here. It offers more info about you and makes your profile just a little bit quirkier and interesting.
- Try not to mention anything negative, that never looks good.
Just be honest and open in what you write, remember not to give out any personal information in your profile though!
What sort of photo should I upload?
Another common question for the team, we recommend a photo that shows you at your best, a clear happy face always works best. Members can now upload their photos using their mobile phone, so what are you waiting for, get snapping.
Try to avoid photos that are low quality or blocky, nobody likes these. Avoid group photos as well, they may show you having a good time but it is hard to work out who is who.
If you have any more questions, please click here to get in touch with the one 4 me team
