OK, so you found your way here. That's a good start. You need to sign up by clicking here.
It only takes a few mins and it's free to join.
Once you have filled in the registration form, you will be able to complete your profile. You can add photos, write some info about yourself, you can even upload a video entry.
Here is where the fun really begins. You've uploaded your best photo, your'e ready to go. You can search by age and location and you can even add filters if you are particularly choose (it's fine to be choosy!) There is even a map view to see who is nearby.
OK, you've had a look around, you've spotted a few members you like the look of. It's time to take the plunge and start winking at them. They'll then be notified that you're interested and if they like you, well, who knows what might happen...